Friday, December 26, 2008

christmas sucks. . .

well i guess it doesnt suck, it's acctually usually pretty cool. But having tyler split up between 15 families sucks. He has to go have christmas with:

- james
- james' family
-james' girlfriends 5 mom and dads
- me and jake
- my family
-jakes family

and his birthday is on christmas eve so he also has 2 parties usually around the same time too.

When kids have too much stimulation on little sleep they tend to get so overwhemed and dont know how to control their feelings of the overwhelmedness. Basically Tyler was so tired from opening presents for b-day and christmas with his dad and family from christmas eve that on chrismas morning he woke up and had a meltdown. He said several times that he didnt want to open presents and he didnt want any of his presents until he got a skateboard. Apparently he got one at james' and he would not have anything else but to have one at our house too. (luckly i called james on christmas eve and asked if there was anything that ty really liked that he thought i should get too, so i got a skateboard but ty didnt know that yet). So the morning was just crankyness. Then at my parents house he was just crazy hyper, running around everywhere! then we took a nap around 4:30 and at 7 went to jakes parents house. Ty didnt want to eat dinner and didnt want to open presents either. He just sat and watched a movie.
You would think that christmas would be fun for kids, but because ty has to go so many places he is just so exahusted and doesnt care really. I feel really bad for him, he should get to enjoy it.

Other then ty's 45 meltdowns durring the day christmas was really good. The family time was good and so was the food.

Also i feel like i'm getting closer to jakey recently, maybe it's the holidays or maybe its because we're getting married in freaking like 75 days, but whatever it is, it is wonderful! : )

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